high-functioning-depression:

How to survive a Break-up!

1. Go cold turkey on your ex!

Don’t get into contact with them. Delete their number. Delete your chat with them on your phone. Delete them on all social media.

2. Take pain-relievers.

Seriously. It can help. Because the pain you experience afte a break up is as real as any other. Just don’t overdose on painkillers or you will feel worse than ever.

3. Reflect on your relationship, don’t dwell on it.

Dwelling on your failed relationship won’t make things any better. In fact, studies proved that if you reflect on them in a non harming way, it might actually help you see why it went the way it did.

4. Your physical health = Priority number 1!

I know you feel like shit. But please do eat, do sports, take a shower and groom yourself. And try to sleep. Go out and have fun with your friends. Don’t be scared to run into your ex. Don’t waste away.

5. Take your time.

You can’t rush a wound to heal. The same thing goes with a metaphorical damaged heart. Just give it some time. It will heal.

6. View the relationship narrative in third person.

Looking back and pretending to be a third person in those scenarios, you will find to understand why certain things went that specific way. If you view that from your point of view, you won’t be able to see objectively.

7. Reclaim your sense of self.

Many people change alot after they’ve been broken up. Getting a new hairstyle. Doing a different kind of sports, etc. That’s totally fine. Do it!

8. Don’t stalk on the Internet!

Seriously don’t. It won’t make you feel better.

aspiritualwarrior:

“In the inner stillness where meditation leads, the Spirit secretly anoints the soul and heals our deepest wounds.”

— John of the Cross

islandnymph:

justjengie:

hersheyhipster:

the-pareidolia-paradigm:

you have been visited by the seven magic dragon balls
your biggest wish will be granted but only if you reblog

Couldn’t risk it.

didn’t realize they change colors. now I know o gotta wish.

THIS SHIT IS REAL I GOT THE JOB I WAS NUTS ABOUT BC I REBLOGGED THIS YESTERDAY
maybe it’s a coinkidink but it okay just take the necessary steps to achieve what you’re wishing for and YOU CAN DO IT

(via perks-of-being-chinese)

spacetwinks:

[puts far more meat than is reasonable into tortilla] [tortilla doesn’t fold fully or correctly] bullshit. what’s wrong with you. fuck you

(via the-gift-of-laughter)

breaking-dexter:

If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.

If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.

(via allteeensrelate)

So I took a medical leave of absence from college this last semester because my anxiety was super bad. I need like a fuckin note saying I can handle life again before I can go back in the fall. Can I write a note that says I refer all life questions to my tarot cards and it relieves me of anxiety because I put the faith of my decisions in them rather than myself orrrrrrrr is that not a thing

callmeoa:

king-dra:

king-dra:

king-dra:

mark fuckerburg

slap your balls and die

at this point comedy is a moving target and im just flailing my arms in a vain hope to hit it

#you hit it twice man

(via penisvvrinkle)